Hi Zarilla. I received your email and I can understand why you are distressed. I, as an arbitrator, can do little to help you. I would recommend sending your email to info-en-q
wikimedia.org where an experienced editor (who has signed a confedentiality agreement) can discuss options. Given your explicit desire for confidentiality I am being very vague here and also didn't want to send this along myself. Barkeep49 (talk) 21:07, 28 January 2023 (UTC)
