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Kissing Jessica Stein is a 2001 American independent romantic comedy film, written and co-produced by the film's stars, Jennifer Westfeldt and Heather Juergensen. The film also stars Tovah Feldshuh and is directed by Charles Herman-Wurmfeld. It is one of the earlier film appearances of actor Jon Hamm. The film is based on a scene from the 1997 off-Broadway play by Westfeldt and Juergensen called Lipschtick.[2]

Kissing Jessica Stein
Theatrical release poster
Directed by Charles Herman-Wurmfeld
Produced by Eden Wurmfeld
Brad Zions
Written by Heather Juergensen
Jennifer Westfeldt
Starring Jennifer Westfeldt
Heather Juergensen
Scott Cohen
Jackie Hoffman
Music by Marcelo Zarvos
Cinematography Lawrence Sher
Edited by Kristy Jacobs Maslin
Greg Tillman
Distributed by Fox Searchlight Pictures
Release date
  • April 21, 2001 (2001-04-21) (Los Angeles Film Festival)
  • March 13, 2002 (2002-03-13)
Running time
97 minutes
Country United States
Language English
Budget $1 million[1]
Box office $10 million[1]



Twenty-eight-year-old Jessica Stein, a copyeditor living and working in New York City, is plagued by failed blind dates with men, and decides to answer a newspaper's personal advertisement containing a quote from Rilke that she had read and admired earlier. The advertisement has been placed by Helen Cooper, a thirtysomething bisexual art gallerist who is seeking a lesbian relationship to replace her unsatisfying and meaningless sex with men.

Given some of the men Jessica is shown to be test-dating at the start of the film, it's no surprise she'd want to fan out her prospects a little. As nervous as Jessica is about dating Helen, she realizes after a surprise kiss that a different experience can be good. Through the early part of their relationship, Jessica finds in Helen everything she'd dreamed of finding in a man. They are compatible, they like many of the same things, and they are caring for one another. Even when Helen gets sick—which she says earlier in the film never happens to her—Jessica is there to care for her.

The only predicament for the relationship is Jessica's nervousness concerning same-sex intimacy. Over the early weeks of their relationship, she and Helen slowly work on building up her confidence in this area by gradually extended make-out sessions. Eventually, they graduate to full intimacy, which is initiated by Jessica during an over night stay at her parents' home in Scarsdale. In spite of Jessica's happiness with Helen, she keeps the relationship secret. Jessica's secrecy means that she has to endure scenes that would not happen had she been open about the two of them. One example occurs during a dinner to celebrate her brother's engagement. Her mother had invited an IBM executive in hopes of setting him up with Jessica.

Helen and Jessica later get into a quarrel about Jessica's refusal to inform her family of their relationship, resulting in an apparent breakup. It isn't until later, as her brother's wedding approaches, that her mother figures out that they are dating. Her mother reminds Jessica of when she was little and had been given the lead in the school play, but after the first rehearsal, Jessica had deemed her co-star not to be up to the task. She quit the play because she thought the play wouldn't be "the best ever." Her mother says that she worries about Jessica having this attitude towards life, and that sometimes she thinks back to that night and thinks that if Jessica went on, maybe it wouldn't have been the best, but it might have been pretty good—and who knows, maybe it would have been the best ever. She then tells Jessica that she thinks Helen "is a very nice girl."

This acceptance on her mother's part gives Jessica the confidence to come out in the open with her relationship with Helen, and invites her as her guest to her brother's wedding. Helen quickly becomes popular with the other women at the reception, who don't seem to mind at all her lesbian relationship with Jessica. At the same time, Jessica gets a love confession from her ex-beau and current boss Josh, who declares he's had feelings for her for a long time. Jessica rejects him, explaining that she already has Helen. Jessica and Helen move in together, but their relationship, while good in most respects, begins to suffer from a lack of frequent sexual intimacy. Jessica's behavior towards Helen is more akin to that of a best friend rather than a sexual partner. The relationship ends amidst Jessica's tears and Helen's realization that she wants more than Jessica is willing to offer.

After moving beyond the heartbreak, Jessica and Helen appear to remain friends, and it is suggested that Jessica might now have a renewed interest in Josh, after both have left the newspaper where they previously worked.



Festival screeningsEdit

The film premiered at the Los Angeles Film Festival on April 21, 2001,[3] receiving the Audience Award for Best Feature Film and a Critics' Special Jury Award.

The film was next shown at the Toronto International Film Festival, with screenings scheduled the day before and the day after the 9/11 attacks.[4] According to the DVD commentary track by Westfeldt and Juergensen, both screenings took place, with the second screening on September 12 producing audible gasps among audience members at the sight of the World Trade Center. The two filmmakers decided to eliminate the nine or ten scenes featuring the Twin Towers because they weren't integral to the story, and distracted from it.

Critical receptionEdit

The film was hailed by critics upon release; it withstood some criticism from the LGBT community for not dealing in depth with the difficulties of being openly gay, but even among these criticisms, it was praised for portraying a same-sex relationship in a positive light. The website, which tracks the portrayal of lesbian and bisexual women in the media, reviewed the film positively.[5] Rotten Tomatoes carries an 85% "fresh" rating.[6]


  1. ^ a b "Kissing Jessica Stein". Archived from the original on September 5, 2015. Retrieved January 16, 2016. 
  2. ^ Kissing Jessica Stein, Variety
  3. ^ Kissing Jessica Stein, Side Reel Archived 2008-05-07 at the Wayback Machine., Retrieved on March 17, 2008
  4. ^ TIFF 2001 review of Kissing Jessica Stein Archived 2007-03-13 at the Wayback Machine. from NOW magazine
  5. ^ Warn, Sarah (2007-07-17). "Review of "Kissing Jessica Stein"". AfterEllen. Archived from the original on 2012-12-01. Retrieved 2012-07-19. 
  6. ^ Kissing Jessica Stein at Rotten Tomatoes

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