Boyfriend (musician)

Suzannah Powell (born August 16, 1988) is an American singer, songwriter, producer, rapper, and performance artist, best known by her stage name Boyfriend. Raised in Nashville, she found her persona upon moving to New Orleans. Boyfriend coined the term "rap-cabaret," a nod to the emphasis on performance in her music.[1]

Photo by Hunter Holder
Photo by Hunter Holder
Background information
Birth nameSuzannah Powell
Born (1988-08-16) August 16, 1988 (age 32)
Nashville, Tennessee
GenresPop Rap Cabaret Musical Theater
Years active2012-present
Associated acts

Formerly known as Flannery Mitchell, she identifies only as Boyfriend but was born Suzannah Powell, daughter of Award-winning Country songwriter and producer Monty Powell.[2]

Early life and educationEdit

Boyfriend grew up in Nashville, Tennessee. She was raised in the Church of Christ and attended parochial school from kindergarten through her sophomore year of high school. In a 2015 interview, she said that her early environment forced her to develop a sense of self. "My personal reality growing up was very much conservative, hetero-normative, white, and Christian. So to do something like be vegetarian, or like girls, or explore another culture or, god forbid, question god... you had to grapple, have a mental reckoning."[3]

After graduating from a public high school in downtown Nashville, Boyfriend moved to Los Angeles, where she attended UCLA. She graduated with a degree in creative writing.[4]

Following her graduation, Boyfriend remained in Los Angeles, where she worked in television production. After five years, she decided to return to the South, and moved to New Orleans with a job in arts education. Working a day job as a teacher, she began to develop the character of Boyfriend after she discovered a natural ability to rap while drunkenly freestyling with friends. She was drawn to rap by the amount of words she could use in a song.[5]

Style and identityEdit

Described as a "mile-a-minute rhyme-spitter; a bawdy, brassy performance artist and a feminist provocateur," her rhymes address subjects including sex, feminism, gender and empowerment with 'bracingly blue, carefully crafted, comic turns of phrase." She has said that she uses rap as social commentary, and as a way to start conversations about art and identity.[6][7][8]

She chose the stage name Boyfriend both because she wanted a name that evoked a feeling from everyone that heard it, and because she felt the overuse of the term among her friends was unintentionally oppressive.[5]

Boyfriend can easily be identified by her signature large glasses, vintage lingerie, and a head full of curlers during most performances and appearances.[9] It is not uncommon to spot fans at her rap cabaret shows dressed as Boyfriend.[10]

In January 2015, Boyfriend told an interviewer that there was "definitely repression being cast off—I certainly hope that there's someone out there who hears my music and feels less ashamed, less scared, and less dirty as a result. But it's not about shock value so much as embracing the darkness … employing darkness as a tool for light."[5][11]



The first track she recorded was the overtly sexual "Hunch and Munch." It was accompanied by a video, released in February 2012.[12]

With a mantra of "form and intention," she put together a Burlesque-inspired live show. Categorizing her performances as "rap cabaret," she appeared as Boyfriend for the first time opening for bounce artist Vockah Redu at a New Orleans club. Gambit wrote that Boyfriend has a "stage show that is as much cone-bra, arena-sized Madonna as it is an intimate, hilariously profane psychosexual bedroom drama."[5][11]


Working with the New Orleans-based production team/party duo Sex Party, she released a series of songs about love through her Love Your Boyfriend project. Two EPs, Love Your Boyfriend Part 1 and Love Your Boyfriend Part 2 were released in late 2014. Love Your Boyfriend Part 3 was scheduled to be released in 2016.[4]

In addition to touring as a headliner, Boyfriend performed at events including SXSW, Fun Fun Fun Fest, Pemberton Music Festival, and BUKU Music + Art Project. She toured with Big Freedia during the fall of 2015.[4]

Boyfriend collaborated with Big Freedia on "Marie Antoinette," a "big room banger" which premiered on The Fader in August 2016.[13] She also wrote 4 songs and co-produced Big Freedia's December 2016 EP, A Very Big Freedia Christmazz.[14]


In Spring of 2017 came Boyfriend's EP: "Next". The EP was produced in Laurel Canyon by Boyfriend and Pablo Dylan with the help of New Orleans musicians Khris Royal, Joe Shirley, and Alvin Ford Jr. The EP includes a track featuring Cindy Wilson of the B-52's.[15]

In June 2017, "Boyfriend and her dancers slayed...with a dazzling dance routine" at Bonnaroo Music Festival where her performance with Preservation Hall Jazz Band and Chance The Rapper in the SuperJam was named by Consequence of Sound as the Number 3 set in their Bonnaroo Festival Review: Top 10 Sets.[16] Additionally, Boyfriend was mentioned in Bob Lefsetz' June 12, 2017 edition of The Lefsetz Letter as Bonnaroo's Best Find.[17]

Boyfriend performed at Outside Lands Music and Arts Festival in August 2017 where her performance was mentioned by Rolling Stone as a part of their 5 Best Things That Happened at Outside Lands 2017.[18]

In December 2017, Boyfriend flew to Tokyo,Japan to headline a party for iconic fashion designer Marc Jacobs at the notorious Ai Honten host club in Kabukicho's Red Light District. The event was held to celebrate the launch of his Spring/Summer 2018 Collection and guests included Yu Yamada and Kiko Mizuhara among other celebrities and influencers.[19]

In November 2018, Boyfriend released "Wash That", her take on the Rodgers and Hammerstein classic, "I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair" from their musical South Pacific. Premiered by Playbill, the song explores "beauty rituals and hair maintenance" which are some of Boyfriend's favorite themes to explore. She tells Playbill that "Wash That" is "in perfect alignment with my ongoing thesis statement about the burden of beautification and the processes we undergo as women to be deemed 'presentable,'" she explains. "So often it's the opposite, where we're plucking and tweezing in order to snag a man, but this taps into the empowerment that is nested inside all of these rituals—wash him off! Put that lipstick on for you!"[20]

Musical theaterEdit


Boyfriend is also the creator of a 3-act semi-scripted and interactive musical that takes place in New Orleans' Preservation Hall. In 2018, she produced the third annual production where audience members (who have been known to include the likes of Mumford & Sons and David Grohl) enjoyed a sold-out experience that featured the dynamic burlesque/drag duo of Kitten & Lou, rearranged Boyfriend ragtime mixes by composer Joe Shirley and trombone stylings by Preservation Hall's David L. Harris.[21][22]


In April 2016, a Boyfriend performance at Proud Larry's in Oxford, Mississippi was cancelled "due to statewide pressures and the current political climate."[23]

In March 2018, Boyfriend was criticized for performing a series of shows in San Francisco, CA of which tickets were sold exclusively on Airbnb's Experiences platform. She was bashed on her social media accounts by critics of the home-sharing app who felt her decision supported gentrification and home displacement.[24]


Selected videographyEdit

  • Hunch and Munch (2013)
  • Swanky (2014)
  • Attention (2014)
  • Like My Hand Did (2014)
  • Jealousy (2015)
  • Rap Cabaret - Say You Will (Boogie T. Remix) (2016)


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  2. ^ "This Boyfriend Remix Will Get Your "Attention"". Nylon. Retrieved March 10, 2018.
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  4. ^ a b c Duca, Lauren (February 2, 2014). "Meet Boyfriend: The Sex-Positive English Nerd Who Defies Every Rap Stereotype Imaginable". Huffington Post. Retrieved March 4, 2016.
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  8. ^ McCash, Doug (October 21, 2015). "Boyfriend, New Orleans' burlesque nerd rapper captivates House of Blues". New Orleans Times-Picayune. Retrieved March 4, 2016.
  9. ^ Grulovic, Tiyana. "My Boyfriend is a Sex-Positive Feminist English Nerd". Nasty Galaxy. Retrieved March 11, 2018.
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  11. ^ a b Woodward, Alex (September 14, 2015). "2015 Music Issue: Boyfriend". The Gambit. Retrieved March 4, 2016.
  12. ^ McDermott, Emily (June 6, 2014). "Featured Meet Boyfriend, Teacher By Day, Raunchy Rapper By Night SHARE". Bullett Media. Retrieved March 6, 2016.
  13. ^ Posner, Nina (August 16, 2016). "Boyfriend And Big Freedia Reimagine The Big-Room Banger With "Marie Antoinette"". The Fader. Retrieved December 27, 2016.
  14. ^ Rawls, Alex (December 16, 2016). "7 New Orleans musicians rattle off their favorite Christmas tunes". Times-Picayune. Retrieved December 27, 2016.
  15. ^ Odell, Jennifer. "Life Is A Rap Cabaret: Boyfriend Celebrates Self-Awareness And Self-Acceptance". OffBeat.
  16. ^ Hall, David (June 12, 2017). "13 Bonnaroo Festival Review: Top 10 Sets". Consequence-of-Sound. Retrieved November 2, 2017.
  17. ^ Lefsetz, Bob (June 12, 2017). "14 The Millennial Switch Sets". The-Lefsetz-Letter. Retrieved November 2, 2017.
  18. ^ Reeves, Mosi (August 14, 2017). "15 5 Best Things That Happened at Outside Lands 2017". Rolling-Stone. Retrieved November 2, 2017.
  19. ^ Bailey, Dan (December 2, 2017). "15 MARC JACOBS PARTY AT KABUKICHO'S AI HONTEN HOST CLUB 2017". Tokyo-Dandy. Retrieved December 8, 2018.
  20. ^ Fierberg, Ruthie (November 1, 2018). "15 Listen to Boyfriend's New R&B Rendition of South Pacific's 'I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair' 2018". Playbill. Retrieved December 8, 2018.
  21. ^ Alford, Michael (November 1, 2018). "15 BOYFRIEND Resurrects In Preservation Hall 2018". Offbeat Magazine. Retrieved December 8, 2018.
  22. ^ Fierberg, Ruthie (November 1, 2018). "15 Listen to Boyfriend's New R&B Rendition of South Pacific's 'I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair' 2018". Playbill. Retrieved December 8, 2018.
  23. ^ Staff Reports (April 11, 2016). "Oxford Concert Cancelled". Oxford Eagle. Retrieved June 20, 2016.
  24. ^ MacCash, Doug (March 26, 2018). "15 Boyfriend, provocative feminist rapper, criticized for partnering with Airbnb". The-TImes-Picayune. Retrieved September 24, 2018.
  25. ^ "You're a Mean One, Mr. Grinch - Recorded at Electric Lady Studios NYC". Spotify. Retrieved December 29, 2019.

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