Comment: I have not commented on civility discussions to date, because they can include gender-specific profanity that I don't find to be a safe space, much less a "friendly space."
And people wonder why women don't participate! Get a clue.
Perhaps we might consider a simple rule of thumb: Would you be comfortable with your sweet, and somewhat shy 14-year-old daughter sitting in on this discusssion? Djembayz (talk) 02:18, 3 November 2012 (UTC)