Mary Cynthia Burke Roche (19 August 1934 – 3 March 2023) was a British aristocrat, educator, and author. She was the maternal aunt of Diana, Princess of Wales and is known for publishing Call Me Maurice: The Life and Times of Lord Fermoy, 1885–1955, a biography of her father, Maurice Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy, and family history.

Mary Cynthia Roche
Born(1934-08-19)19 August 1934
Died3 March 2023(2023-03-03) (aged 88)
London, England
Spouses
(m. 1954⁠–⁠1966)
Denis Geoghan
(m. 1973⁠–⁠1980)
Michael Gunningham
(m. 1981⁠–⁠1989)
Children4
Parents

Early life and education

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Roche was born on 19 August 1934 in Peterculter, Aberdeen, as the eldest daughter and second child of Maurice Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy and Ruth Roche, Baroness Fermoy.[1][2] She had a brother, Edmund Roche, and a sister, Frances Shand Kydd, who later became known as the mother of Diana, Princess of Wales.[1][2] Her godmother was Mary of Teck.[1][2] Roche's paternal grandfather was Frank Work, a railway and shipping businessman, who was married to American heiress Frances Ellen Work.[1] She went to Heathfield and St Paul's Girls' School, and graduated in 1952.[1][2] Roche later earned a degree in a classic literature from University College London.[1][2]

Marriage

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Roche was first married to Anthony Berry, the son of Gomer Berry, 1st Viscount Kemsley, at St Margaret's in Westminster, on 25 November 1954.[1][2] They had two sons, Jo Turnell and Edward Berry, and two daughters, Alexandra Bartz and Antonia Butterworth.[1][2] Their marriage lasted until divorce in 1966.[1][2] Her second marriage was to Denis Geoghan, a tutor, in 1973.[1][2] They divorced in 1980.[1][2] Roche's third and last marriage was to Michael Gunningham, head of classics at a Jesuit school in north London, in 1981, and ended up in divorce in 1989.[1][2]

Later life and death

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Roche started her career as a teacher and retired in her forties.[1] She later worked at Mary Datchelor School in Camberwell, South London.[2] Roche's later became interest in her family story and published a book titled Call Me Maurice: The Life and Times of Lord Fermoy, 1885–1955.[2] She returned to Norfolk and lived in London, England, in 2003. In 2007, Roche's gained a public attention when she organized a gathering of all living descendants of the 1st Baron Fermoy.[2] She died at her residence in London, England, on 3 March 2023 due to a complication from dementia at the age of 88.[2]

References

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  1. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m Pasternak, Anna (18 January 2024). "What happened to Princess Diana's aunt – and why it's now normal for the aristocracy". The Telegraph. Retrieved 21 July 2024.
  2. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o "Mary Roche obituary". The Times. 9 March 2023. Retrieved 22 July 2024.