Kanyādāna ("gift of a maiden"[1]) is a Hindu wedding ritual.[2][1] and the origin of this tradition is yet to be established . There are different interpretations regarding kanyādān across India (South Asia).


The word 'kanyādana' is made of two parts, 'kanyā' meaning unmarried girl and 'dāna' meaning 'charity' or 'to give away'.

Of all dānas, annadāna (provide food) is considered supreme from the perspective of the receiver, as food is needed for survival.

From perspective of the giver (in this case the girl's father), kanyādāna is considered supreme because you give away what you love the most - your own daughter - to another family.


Kanyādāna songsEdit

In communities where kanyādāna is performed as part of the actual wedding, the ritual is carried out through a variety of kanyādāna songs. These songs may include the parents lamenting the loss of their daughter, as well as regretting their economic sacrifice for the wedding. Other songs focus on the groom, for example comparing him to the "ideal groom", the god Rama, in the epic Ramayana. Importantly, the kanyādān ritual occurs right before the Sindoor ritual (sindurdan).[4]

See alsoEdit


  1. ^ a b “India.” Encyclopædia Britannica. 2008. Encyclopædia Britannica Online. 20 February 2008. <http://ripley.sbc.edu:2080/eb/article-46444>.
  2. ^ Enslin, Elizabeth. “Imagined Sisters: The Ambiguities of Women’s Poetics and Collective Actions.” Selves in Time and Place: Identities, Experience, and History in Nepal. Ed. Debra Skinner, Alfred Pach III, and Dorothy Holland. Lanham; Boulder; New York; Oxford: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc., 1998 (269-299).
  3. ^ http://periva.proboards.com/thread/12692/kannikadhanam
  4. ^ Henry, Edward O. “Folk Song Genres and Their Melodies in India: Music Use and Genre Process.” Asian Music (Spring-Summer 2000). JSTOR. 20 February 2008.

Further readingEdit

  • Gutschow, Niels; Michaels, Axel; Bau, Christian (2008). The Girl's Hindu Marriage to the Bel Fruit: Ihi and The Girl's Buddhist Marriage to the Bel Fruit: Ihi in Growing up - Hindu and Buddhist Initiation Ritual among Newar Children in Bhaktapur, Nepal. Otto Harrassowitz Verlag, Germany. ISBN 3-447-05752-1. pp. 93-173.