I just had conversation with my colleague few days back, just a casual one, about their relationship. Wow! he was so excited to tell me, how much he loves his wife. Is love showing that you love or is it just a silent care for someone?
Showing someone that you love them and making them feel special is the oxygen for any relationship. If you care for someone silently, of coarse it is good, but will there be a charm in the relation. No, eventually, your relationship will die. Because the one you care for, will not necessarily realize every time that you love them.
I have seen many couples around, let it be any kind of relation, a girl friend- boy friends, true lovers, married couple, even those who have lost their life partners, those who have remarried.. I always felt that the relationship lasts for a long and the beauty of it remains intact only if you show your behalf that you love him/her. Only then, they will feel that you are happy with them. What generally happens in divorces, is the situations or circumstances always responsible? No, its the failure to show that you really care may be because of time deficiency, yes, this is the main factor that you are unable to give the time that your partner deserves, and they finally feel lonely and ends up the relation.
But, on the other side, have you ever thought of any long distance relationship! Even though they don’t meet or spend enough time with each other, the relation is still live. what you think; the reason might be behind such successful long distance relationships! Yes, you are on correct track. It is just the way of showing that you really care for the other and this will bring in the trust in the relationship. So how exactly it should be done? If not every day, at least on the days when you expect yourself to be treated special, on those days, treat your behalf most precious and valuable. Let it be Birthdays or anniversaries. These days are actually meant for resurrection of any relation.
In this digital era, it is not tough task to do that, let me get back to my colleague whom I talked about, what he did? He just updated his whatsapp status with beautiful and nostalgic video on their anniversary.
Isn’t that beautiful!! Yes it is, for those who really care. Let us today do something special for our beloved one to show the we really care! Let us give it a new start! Let us do it now before its too late! Let us be happy when they are happy.. and if they are not happy, let us show them, we are here to make them happy!!!