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Nowadays the wedding breakfast is not normally a morning meal, nor does it look like a typical breakfast, so its name can be confusing.
Origin of the nameEdit
The name is claimed to have arisen from the fact that in pre-Reformation times, the wedding service was usually a Eucharistic Mass and that the newlyweds would therefore have been fasting before the wedding in order to be eligible to receive the sacrament of Holy Communion. After the wedding ceremony was complete, the priest would bless and distribute some wine, cakes, and sweetmeats, which were then handed round to the company, including the newlyweds. This distribution of food and drink was therefore a literal “break fast” for the newly married couple, though others in attendance would not necessarily take Communion and therefore would not necessarily have been fasting. Since usage of the phrase cannot be shown to date back earlier than the first half of the nineteenth century however, a pre-16th-century origin seems unlikely.
The author of Party-giving on Every Scale (London, n.d. ) suggests the phrase may have evolved fifty years earlier:
The orthodox "Wedding Breakfast" might more properly be termed a "Wedding Luncheon," as it assumes the character of that meal to a great extent; in any case it bears little relation to the breakfast of that day, although the title of breakfast is still applied to it, out of compliment to tradition. As recently as fifty years ago luncheon was not a recognised meal, even in the wealthiest families, and the marriage feast was modernised into the wedding breakfast, which appellation this entertainment still bears.
The Oxford English Dictionary does not record any occurrences of the phrase "wedding breakfast" before 1850, but it was used at least as far back as 1838. This would agree with the quotation above, which suggests the phrase came into use about the 1830s.
Wedding Breakfast Entertainment and Singing Waiters such as Singers in Disguise https://www.singersindisguise.co.uk/ are a growing phenomenon, especially in the UK
The custom of the wedding breakfast is occasionally spotted in non-English-speaking countries that market themselves as wedding destinations, e.g. Poland.
- Wagner, L. (1894). Manners, customs and observances. London: Heinemann. (Chapter 7)
- In a newspaper review of a recently published book, The Veteran by John Harley, the reviewer quotes: 'C--- and his bride returned to the coffee house, where they were received with great kindness the master and mistress who, notwithstanding the short notice, had a comfortable wedding-breakfast prepared for them'."The Times". 15 January 1838: 7. Cite journal requires
- Compact Oxford Dictionary
- Merriam-Webster online dictionary
- "Forget Me Nots: Twój ślub jak Śniadanie u Tiffniego!". Forgetmenot-weddings.blogspot.com. Retrieved 21 December 2018.