Dr. Scott David Haltzman (born 1960 in Allentown, Pennsylvania) is an American psychiatrist, relationship counselor, and author. He is known for his work in support of marriage and husbands.

Scott Haltzman
Haltzman in 2015
Born1960 (age 63–64)
NationalityAmerican
EducationBrown University (BA), Brown Medical School (MD)
Occupation(s)psychiatrist, relationship counselor, author
Known forAuthor and researcher
Medical career
ProfessionPsychiatrist and author
ResearchMarriage and husbands

Haltzman is the author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever (2006), The Secrets of Happily Married Women: How to Get More Out of Your Relationship by Doing Less (2008), The Secrets of Happy Families: Eight Keys to Building a Lifetime of Connection and Contentment (2009), and The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity (2013).

Haltzman’s interest in the nature of the married relationship grows from observations made over years of his providing individual and couple’s therapy. His research focuses on seeking out data to better help understand the relationship patterns of husbands and wives, and the techniques individuals use to advance the institution of marriage.

Early life and education edit

Haltzman is the son of Jay Haltzman, the President of the Paint-n-Paper stores in Allentown, Pennsylvania, and the late Delores ("Dolly") Haltzman, the former President and Artistic Director of the Repertory Dance Theater and the Dolly Haltzman School of Dance in Allentown.[1] He has two brothers (Mark, a trial attorney,[2] and Jonathan) and a sister (Jennifer, the current President of the Repertory Dance Theater and Dolly Haltzman School of Dance). Haltzman's inquisitive mind was in evidence at an early age.[3]

Haltzman graduated from Emmaus High School in Emmaus, Pennsylvania and received his bachelor's degree in English and Biology from Brown University in 1982.[4] He received his M.D. degree from Brown Medical School in 1985. He completed his chief residency and was a Fellow in Psychiatry at the Yale New Haven Hospital.[5][6]

Haltzman is board certified in psychiatry, and is a Distinguished Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association.[7]

Career edit

Haltzman is the Medical Director of Northern Rhode Island Community Services, a mental health and substance-abuse treatment center in Woonsocket, Rhode Island, and a Clinical Assistant Professor of Psychiatry & Human Behavior at Brown Medical School.[8][9] He also has an active private practice, with a focus on marriage counseling for individuals and couples. In addition, he is a presenter at the annual Smart Marriages Conference. Haltzman also spends one day of his week working with clients for SSTAR, a Drug and Alcohol / Mental Health Facility in Fall River, Massachusetts.

Author edit

 
Haltzman with four of his books, 2015

Haltzman is the author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever (2006), which discusses strategies to help men improve their marriages.[10] On Valentine's Day 2006, columnist John Tierney wrote a New York Times editorial echoing advice from Haltzman's book. After Tierney's editorial, The Secrets of Happily Married Men rose to Amazon.com's list of top 100 sellers in books.[11] The book was also chosen by Time Magazine as one of the "Six Books for a Better You in 2006."[12]

In January 2008 Haltzman released The Secrets of Happily Married Women: How to Get More Out of Your Relationship by Doing Less, which he co-authored with Theresa Foy DiGeronimo.[13]

Haltzman followed that with the July 2009 release of The Secrets of Happy Families: Eight Keys to Building a Lifetime of Connection and Contentment, Jossey-Bass/John Wiley & Sons.[14] Using the format of his prior two books, Haltzman published the findings of a survey of 1,266 individuals and determined the factors that led to families being happy. Library Journal's review stated: "An authoritative book on a timely subject for mental-health professionals and parents looking to strengthen familial bonds."[15]

He is also the author of The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity, Johns Hopkins University Press, 2013.[16][17][18] Publishers Weekly, in reviewing it, wrote: "This vital guide from marriage and infidelity expert Haltzman ... contains cogent advice for anyone in a troubled relationship."[19]

Haltzman founded the websites www.secretsofmarriedmen.com and www.365Reasons.com.

Media appearances edit

Haltzman has appeared on the Today Show, Good Morning America, 20/20, and Tucker, and has been cited in media on a number of occasions.[20][21][22][23][24][25]

Awards edit

In 2007, Haltzman was honored by the Women's Resource Center of Newport & Bristol Counties (Rhode Island) as one of 19 "Men who Make a Difference."[26]

Personal edit

Haltzman married Susan (née Reynolds Hayum) Haltzman in 1988.[5] They reside in Providence, Rhode Island. His son, Matthew,[27] owns a Super Lawyers[28] rated law firm in Fort Collins, Colorado where Haltzman serves as a medical consultant.[29]

References edit

  1. ^ "Susan Reynolds Hayum Weds Dr. Scott Haltzman Archived March 3, 2016, at the Wayback Machine," The New York Times, 3/20/88, accessed 7/19/09]
  2. ^ "Lamm Rubenstone LLC - Trevose, Allentown PA, Cherry Hill NJ - Attorneys". www.lammrubenstone.com. Archived from the original on January 26, 2010.
  3. ^ ""How do fingernails grow?: Scott Haltzman, age 10, of Allentown, Pennsylvania, for his question," You Ask Andy, 1970, accessed 7/19/09". Archived from the original on July 18, 2011. Retrieved June 23, 2009.
  4. ^ "Scott Haltzman, M.D. – Redbook". Red Book Magazine. Archived from the original on February 14, 2012. Retrieved August 1, 2013. {{cite journal}}: Cite journal requires |journal= (help)
  5. ^ a b "Susan Reynolds Hayum Weds Dr. Scott Haltzman". The New York Times. March 20, 1988. Archived from the original on May 25, 2015. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  6. ^ "Scott Haltzman, M.D." Red Book Magazine. Archived from the original on February 14, 2012. Retrieved August 1, 2013. {{cite journal}}: Cite journal requires |journal= (help)
  7. ^ "Books by Dr. Scott Haltzman". Secretsofmarriedmen.com. January 1, 2006. Archived from the original on August 4, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  8. ^ Tim Britton. "Scott Haltzman: R.I.'s 500-calorie addiction | Contributors | projo.com | the Providence Journal". The Providence Journal. Archived from the original on June 29, 2011. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  9. ^ "Department of Psychiatry and Human Behavior at Brown University – faculty". Med.brown.edu. Archived from the original on February 16, 2012. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  10. ^ "The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever – Scott Haltzman". Wiley. Archived from the original on October 7, 2012. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  11. ^ Rockland, Ari (February 27, 2006). "Med School prof speaks out on relationships". Brown Daily Herald. Archived from the original on September 29, 2007. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  12. ^ Sachs, Andrea (December 27, 2005). "6 Books for a Better You". TIME. Archived from the original on December 30, 2005. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  13. ^ Deborah Kotz (February 8, 2008). "Secrets of Happily Married Women – On Women". Health.usnews.com. Archived from the original on November 17, 2009. Retrieved August 1, 2013. {{cite journal}}: Cite journal requires |journal= (help)
  14. ^ "The Secrets of Happy Families: Eight Keys to Building a Lifetime of Connection and Contentment – Scott Haltzman". Wiley. Archived from the original on October 7, 2012. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  15. ^ Berry, John N. "The Secrets of Happy Families". Library Journal. Archived from the original on March 16, 2012. Retrieved June 16, 2023.
  16. ^ The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity. The Johns Hopkins University Press. June 2013. ISBN 9781421409412. Archived from the original on December 29, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  17. ^ "Can Infidelity Make A Relationship Better?". NPR. June 25, 2013. Archived from the original on July 9, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  18. ^ "Surviving infidelity: psychiatrist offers 3-step plan". wusa9.com. Archived from the original on August 1, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  19. ^ "Nonfiction Review: The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity by Scott D. Haltzman, M.D. Johns Hopkins Univ". Publishers Weekly. March 29, 2013. Archived from the original on July 14, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  20. ^ "Press release distribution;press releases:press release services, Advanced PR services, news releases, news release distribution services, public relations distribution services, press lists, media, media coverage". www.majon.com. Archived from the original on June 13, 2006. Retrieved January 15, 2022.
  21. ^ Sarah Jio (August 5, 2008). "No kids, no jobs for growing number of wives". CNN. Archived from the original on June 27, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  22. ^ Emily Brandon (February 4, 2008). "7 Tips for Retiring With Your Spouse". U.S. News & World Report. Archived from the original on June 15, 2009. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  23. ^ Rosemary Black. "Experts: Lindsay Lohan may be sexually confused". NY Daily News. Archived from the original on April 12, 2009. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  24. ^ Elias, Marilyn (July 23, 2008). "Economy's stuck, but business is booming at therapists' offices". USA Today. Archived from the original on October 26, 2008. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  25. ^ Daniel B. Wood. "Backstory: Manly man? Girly man? Oh, man!". Christian Science Monitor. Archived from the original on June 25, 2009. Retrieved August 1, 2013.
  26. ^ "Biography: Dr. Scott Haltzman | hitched". Hitched Magazine. April 12, 2007. Archived from the original on August 11, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2013. {{cite journal}}: Cite journal requires |journal= (help)
  27. ^ "Katie Demetropoulos, Matthew Haltzman". The New York Times. July 9, 2017. ISSN 0362-4331. Archived from the original on December 12, 2019. Retrieved December 12, 2019.
  28. ^ "Top Rated Fort Collins, CO Criminal Defense Attorney | Matthew Haltzman". Super Lawyers. Archived from the original on December 12, 2019. Retrieved December 12, 2019.
  29. ^ "Fort Collins Personal Injury Attorneys & Civil Litigation: Haltzman". Haltzman Law. Archived from the original on December 12, 2019. Retrieved December 12, 2019.

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