My Life (Mary J. Blige album)

My Life is the second studio album by American R&B recording artist Mary J. Blige, released on November 29, 1994, by Uptown Records and MCA Records.[2] Many of the topics on My Life deal with clinical depression, Blige's battling with both drugs and alcohol, as well as being in an abusive relationship. Unlike her debut, What's the 411? (1992), Blige contributed lyrics to fourteen of the album's tracks, making it her most introspective and personal album at the time. Similar to her debut album, My Life features vast production from Sean "Puffy" Combs for his newly founded label, Bad Boy Entertainment, which was at the time backed by Arista Records.

My Life
Mary J Blige album cover My Life.jpg
Studio album by
ReleasedNovember 29, 1994 (1994-11-29)
StudioAxis Studios Recording
Clinton Recording Studios
Daddy's House
The Hit Factory
Sound on Sound Recordings
(New York City)
Mary J. Blige chronology
What's the 411? Remix
My Life
Share My World
Singles from My Life
  1. "Be Happy"
    Released: October 26, 1994
  2. "I'm Goin' Down"
    Released: January 18, 1995
  3. "Mary Jane (All Night Long)"
    Released: February 8, 1995
  4. "You Bring Me Joy"
    Released: May 28, 1995
  5. "I Love You"
    Released: May 28, 1995

Considered to be her breakthrough album, My Life became Mary J. Blige's second album to reach the top ten on the Billboard 200 chart, peaking at number seven, and debuting at number one on the Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart, where it stayed for eight weeks. In 1996, the album was nominated for Best R&B Album at the 38th Grammy Awards, while in December of the same year, the album was certified triple platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America, for shipments of three million copies in the United States.[2] It also won the 1995 Billboard Music Award for Top R&B Album. In 1996, following the album's success, MCA issued a remix EP entitled My Life Remix Album which featured artists such as LL Cool J and Lauryn Hill.

A special commemorative edition of the album was released on November 20, 2020.[3]


Following the success of her debut album, What's the 411?, and a remixed version in 1993, Blige went into the recording studio in the winter of 1993 to record her second album, My Life.[4] Producer Chucky Thompson was brought in and had originally been contracted to produce one song and an interlude for the project.[4] He ended up being a last minute replacement as the producers Blige worked with previously on What's the 411? demanded more money when the album was certified triple platinum.[4] Blige loved the one song Thompson produced for her, which made Combs change the direction of the album.[4]

Combs called recording engineer Prince Charles Alexander out of the blue after Jodeci went to record Diary of a Mad Band. Alexander was brought in at the end of the record, after working on albums by other artists on Bad Boy Entertainment, such as Total, The Notorious B.I.G. and 112.[5] In the middle of recording My Life, Combs suggested covering Rose Royce's 1977 hit "I'm Going Down", which he wanted Alexander to handle the session. However, the two butted heads over production credit issues, as Combs wanted to give credit to himself and Thompson, although neither were present for the song's recording session.[5] Alexander fought hard to seek production credit from Combs and the two battled it out over the phone over the issue.[5] Combs later explained it was due to receiving a flat royalty rate for producing the majority of the songs and Alexander's production credit would have interfered with the royalty rate.[5] To circumvent this issue, Alexander insisted on having two more sessions with Bad Boy acts. One of the other songs he produced was another Rose Royce cover – "Love Don't Live Here Anymore" for Faith Evans' 1995 debut Faith.[5] Alexander was later called back in to do some mixing and recording.

On the song "K. Murray Interlude", it originally featured The Notorious B.I.G.. He was taken off due to the song's lyrical content, which would have forced Uptown Records to release the album with a Parental Advisory sticker.[5] Rapper Keith Murray was the replacement, while The Notorious B.I.G.'s verse would be released as the song "Who Shot Ya".[5]

The album was a breakthrough for Blige, who at this point was in a clinical depression, battling both drugs and alcohol as well as being in an abusive relationship with singer K-Ci Hailey.[6][7] In this period, Blige would once again dominate the charts with her singles: the Top 40 hit "Be Happy", a cover version of "I'm Goin' Down" and "You Bring Me Joy". The album uses primary soul samples from R&B musicians such as Curtis Mayfield, Roy Ayers, Al Green, Teddy Pendergrass, Marvin Gaye, Barry White, Rick James, and his protégés, the Mary Jane Girls.[5]

Critical receptionEdit

Professional ratings
Review scores
AllMusic     [8]
Chicago Tribune    [9]
Entertainment WeeklyB[10]
The Guardian    [11]
Los Angeles Times    [12]
Mojo     [13]
The Philadelphia Inquirer    [15]
The Rolling Stone Album Guide     [17]

NME wrote that the beats "reign supreme" and commended Blige for "telling her audience she grew up the same way they did, listened to the same things, was influenced by the same situations."[14] Village Voice critic Robert Christgau gave it a three-star honorable mention, indicating "an enjoyable effort consumers attuned to its overriding aesthetic or individual vision may well treasure". He cited "Mary Jane" and "I'm Going Down" as highlights while calling the album "an around-the-way girl's recipe for happiness".[18] In a mixed review, Jonathan Bernstein of Spin found most of the songs too "ordinary" and felt that Blige's compositions "give her space to stretch out and emote, but for all the melody they possess they might as well be breathing exercises."[19] Connie Johnson was more critical in the Los Angeles Times, finding it "drab" and devoid of attitude from Blige, who "doesn't add her own hard-core signature to any significant degree".[12]

In 2002, My Life was ranked number 57 on Blender's list of the 100 greatest American albums of all-time.[20] The following year, Rolling Stone placed it at number 279 on their 500 Greatest Albums of All Time,[21] 281 on a 2012 revised list,[22] and 126 on a 2020 list.[23] In 2006, the record was included in Time's 100 greatest albums of all-time list.[24]


Publication Country Accolade Year Rank
Blender United States The 100 Greatest American Albums of All time 2002 57
Entertainment Weekly The 100 Best Albums from 1983 to 2008 2008 70
Rolling Stone The Essential Recordings of the 90s 1999 *
50 Essential Female Albums 2002 17
The 100 Greatest Albums of the 90s 2010 63
The 500 Greatest Albums of All Time 2003 279
2012 281
2020 126
TIME Top 100 Albums of All Time 2006 *
Vibe 100 Essential Albums of the 20th Century 1999 *
Vibe 150 Albums That Define the Vibe Era (1992–2007) 2007 *
The Rough Guide Soul: 100 Essential CDs 2000 *
The New Nation United Kingdom Top 100 Albums by Black Artists 38
FNAC France The 1000 Best Albums of All Time 2008 862

Commercial performanceEdit

My Life debuted at number nine on the US Billboard 200 chart, and eventually peaked at number seven. The album also debuted at number one on the US Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart and it spent a total of eight weeks at the top of that chart. The album would ultimately go on to spend 46 weeks on the Billboard 200 Albums Chart and 84 weeks on the Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart. The album also charted in Canada peaking at number 37 on the Canadian Albums Chart, and at number 59 on the UK Albums Chart.[25] On December 13, 1995, My Life was certified triple platinum by the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA), for shipments of three million copies in the United States.[2]

Track listingEdit

Unless otherwise indicated, Information is taken from the Album's Liner Notes[26]

1."Intro"Mary J. Blige, Sean "Puffy" Combs, Chucky ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs1:04
2."Mary Jane (All Night Long)"Blige, Combs, Rick James, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:39
3."You Bring Me Joy"Blige, Combs, Thompson, Ekundayo Paris, Nelson Pigford, Joel "JoJo" HaileyChucky Thompson (music), Sean "Puffy" Combs (music), Jo-Jo Hailey (vocals)4:13
4."Marvin Interlude"Blige, Combs, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs0:36
5."I'm the Only Woman"Blige, Combs, Thompson, Curtis MayfieldChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:30
6."K. Murray Interlude"Combs, Thompson, Nashiem Myrick, Keith Murray, Allie Wrubel, Herb MagidsonNashiem Myrick, Chucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs0:22
7."My Life"Blige, Combs, Thompson, Arlene DelValle, Roy AyersChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:17
8."You Gotta Believe"Blige, Combs, Thompson, Herb Middleton, Big Bub, Faith Evans, Cedric "K-Ci" HaileyHerb Middleton, Chucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs5:02
9."I Never Wanna Live Without You"Blige, Big Bub, Combs, Evans, Thompson, MiddletonHerb Middleton, Chucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs6:17
10."I'm Goin' Down"Norman Whitfield, Joel SchumacherChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs, Mark "Led" Ledford, Prince Charles Alexander3:42
11."My Life Interlude"Blige, Big Bub, Combs, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs1:15
12."Be with You"Blige, Combs, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:26
13."Mary's Joint"Blige, Combs, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs5:02
14."Don't Go"Blige, Combs, Evans, Thompson, Big Bub, Gene Griffin, Timmy Gatling, Teddy Riley, Aaron Hall, Donnie McClurkinChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:59
15."I Love You"Blige, Combs, Thompson, Isaac HayesChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:31
16."No One Else"Cedric Hailey, Dalvin DeGrate, Al Green, Douglas E. Davis, Ricky WaltersMr. Dalvin4:15
17."Be Happy"Blige, Combs, DelValle, Curtis Mayfield, Jean-Claude OlivierSean "Puffy" Combs, Poke5:49
International bonus track
18."(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman"Gerry Goffin, Carole King, Jerry WexlerJames Mtume2:56
25th anniversary edition bonus disc[27]
1."Mary Jane (All Night Long)" (Remix) (featuring LL Cool J)Blige, Combs, Rick James, ThompsonChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs5:31
2."I'm Goin' Down" (Remix) (featuring Mr. Cheeks)Norman WhitfieldChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs, Mark Ledford, Prince Charles Alexander3:50
3."I Love You" (Remix) (featuring Smif-N-Wessun)Blige, Combs, Thompson, Isaac HayesChucky Thompson, Sean "Puffy" Combs4:55
4."Be Happy" (Bad Boy Butter Remix)Blige, Combs, DelValle, J.C. Olivier, Curtis MayfieldSean "Puffy" Combs, Poke4:44
5."Be Happy" (Ron G Remix)Blige, Combs, DelValle, J.C. Olivier, Curtis MayfieldSean "Puffy" Combs, Poke3:42
6."(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman"Gerry Goffin, Carole King, Jerry WexlerJames Mtume2:56
Sample Credits


Unless otherwise indicated, Information is taken from the Album's Liner Notes[26]



Region Certification Certified units/sales
Canada (Music Canada)[39] Gold 50,000^
United Kingdom (BPI)[40] Gold 100,000^
United States (RIAA)[41] 3× Platinum 3,000,000^

^ Shipments figures based on certification alone.

See alsoEdit


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