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A woman voluntarily submits to a forced orgasm while tied on furniture
A forced orgasm vibrator belt with a wand massager

In the context of consensual BDSM, a forced orgasm is a form of orgasm control play where the active partner sexually stimulates a submissive partner to the point of the submissive's involuntary orgasm, with the submissive unable to control the onset of orgasm.[1]

Medical research shows that the genital reflex is part of the spinal cord, and not necessarily under conscious control.[2][3][4] The submissive partner can be put in physical restraints, to increase the feeling of helplessness.[5]

Forced orgasms may be induced with manual stimulation of the genitals (in the form of a handjob or fingering), or the use of a vibrator, typically a wand vibrator.

The practice of forced orgasm may also be combined with orgasm denial, edging, or ruined orgasms.

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  1. ^ Lords, Kayla (October 6, 2016). "Try These Kinky Forced Orgasm Scenarios". Retrieved 2018-11-23.
  2. ^ "Nervous System: A Tutorial Study Guide" Author Nicoladie Tam 2015
  3. ^ "Spinal Cord Medicine, Second Edition: Principles & Practice." Author Diana D. Cardenas. Page 431
  4. ^ Allard, Julien; Truitt, William A.; McKenna, Kevin E.; Coolen, Lique M. (2005). "Spinal cord control of ejaculation". World Journal of Urology. 23 (2): 119–26. doi:10.1007/s00345-004-0494-9. PMID 15947961.
  5. ^ Jahme, Carole (2010-08-13). "Why does my girlfriend only achieve orgasm when tied up?". the Guardian. Retrieved 2018-11-23.