Eric Rosswood

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Eric Rosswood ( Ross, born 1979) is an American writer and LGBT activist, best known for writing books about parenting. He is the author of My Uncle's Wedding, Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood, The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads, and We Make It Better.

Eric Rosswood
Rosswood signing copies of My Uncle's Wedding at the book release
Rosswood signing copies of My Uncle's Wedding at the book release
BornEric Ross
(1979-10-12) October 12, 1979 (age 40)
OccupationLGBT activist, writer
CitizenshipUnited States
Notable worksMy Uncle's Wedding (2011);
Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood (2016)
SpouseMat Rosswood (né Wood)


My Uncle’s WeddingEdit

My Uncle’s Wedding is a children’s picture book about marriage equality. The main character is a young boy named Andy who finds out that his uncle, Mike, is going to get married to his long-term boyfriend, Steve. In the book, Andy talks about his uncle's wedding, how it affects him, and the things he gets to do in preparation for the ceremony. Tracy K. Greene created illustrations and the author is credited as Eric Ross instead of Eric Rosswood because he wrote and published the book prior to getting married and changing his last name.

Rosswood stated he intentionally left the word "gay" out of the book because the story was about a wedding, not a "gay wedding."[1] My Uncle’s Wedding was praised by Marriage Equality USA[2] and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. During the official book release, California Senator Mark Leno presented Rosswood with a Senate Certificate of Recognition for My Uncle's Wedding, stating the book's "vital role in creating a brighter future."[3]

In various interviews, Rosswood explained that the reason he wrote My Uncle’s Wedding was because he didn't like how opponents of marriage equality would always use kids for political gain, so he decided to write about the topic from a child’s perspective.[4]

While the book was typically well received, the anti-LGBT group National Organization for Marriage (NOM) was quick to condemn it.[5]

Journey to Same-Sex ParenthoodEdit

While trying to expand his own family, Rosswood realized there was a lack of resources available to help same-sex couples compare paths to parenthood. He wrote Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood to help same-sex couples start their own families.[6] The book compares adoption, foster care, assisted reproduction, surrogacy, and co-parenting to help LGBTQ people decide which path is right for them. It includes 19 real life stories from parents around the world, including the United States, the UK, Ireland, and South Africa.[7] One of the stories was written by a serodiscordant couple, and it is believed that Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood is the first book that gives an example for how a gay couple can have children when one of the prospective parents is HIV-positive.[8]

The book also includes legal tips and advice contributed by the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Actress Melissa Gilbert wrote the foreword and Charlie Condou wrote the introduction.

The Ultimate Guide for Gay DadsEdit

Rosswood’s third book, The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads, covers general parenting information, but instead of topics focusing on mothers, it highlights information relevant to gay dads. The book includes parenting tips and advice from pediatricians, school educators, lawyers, and other gay parents. The foreword was written by Golden Globe nominated writer, director, and producer Greg Berlanti, best known for his work as executive producer and co-creator of The CW’s Arrow.[6] The audiobook is narrated by Paul Michael Garcia.[9] The book became the #1 New Release in the Adoption category on Amazon.[10] The book received positive responses from Shawn Moore, Board Member for the Modern Family Alliance, and Stan J. Sloan, CEO for The Family Equality Council.[11] The Washington Blade called it a "generous resource."[12]

We Make It BetterEdit

In 2018, Rosswood partnered with Kathleen Archambeau to write We Make It Better: The LGBTQ Community and their Positive Contributions to Society.[13][14] The book is split into 10 sections: activism, business, dance, film & television, government and military, music, religion, science, sports, and literature. It features biographies on many subjects, including Oscar Wilde, Emma González, Bayard Rustin, Lana and Lilly Wachowski, Leonard Matlovich, Johanna Siguroardottir, and Tim Cook.[15] Kate Kendell, Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, stated, "This book is sure to empower the next generation of LGBTQ youth to find their passions and transform the world."[16]


In 1997, Rosswood started the first Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Orange Glen High School in Escondido, California where he went to school.[1]

Rosswood has been an activist for LGBTQ equality and equal rights. In addition to starting a GSA at his high school, he was also a chapter leader for Marriage Equality USA and helped with grassroots activism in the fight against Prop 8, which took away marriage rights from same-sex couples.[4]

He joined the board of San Francisco Pride in 2011 and stayed on for two years prior to stepping down before the birth of his son.[1]

In 2017, when Heterosexual Pride Day was trending on Twitter, Rosswood tweeted the previously used phrase, "It's that time of year again when all the homophobic people complain about not having a #HeterosexualPrideDay and here's the annual response: "Gay Pride was not born of a need to celebrate being gay, but our right to exist without persecution. So instead of wondering why there isn't a Straight Pride movement, be thankful you don't need one.""[17]

In January 2019, after Tulsi Gabbard announced she was running for the 2020 United States presidential election, Rosswood tweeted "Homophobic remarks from @TulsiGabbard resurface after announcing she’s running for president? Thank U, Next!"[18]

Rosswood is now a commentator on LGBTQ issues, including civil rights, parenting, marriage, and politics. He has led panels on LGBTQ parenting issues for organizations such as the Family Equality Council and the Modern Family Alliance.[19][20][21][22]

Personal lifeEdit

Rosswood and his husband, Mat, met at a salsa class in 2007.[23] They were married at Disneyland in 2011.[24][25] They combined their last names (Ross and Wood) to make Rosswood.[26] They adopted their son, Connor, in 2013.[27] In an interview with the Chicago Tribune, Rosswood stated he and his husband "encountered challenges not typically covered in basic parenting manuals" because they were same-sex parents.[28]


  • Rosswood, Eric My Uncle's Wedding (2011) ISBN 978-1456531034
  • --- Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood (2016) ISBN 978-0882825144
  • --- The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads (2017) ISBN 978-1633534919
  • --- (with Kathleen Archambeau) We Make It Better (2018) ISBN 978-1633538207


  1. ^ a b c Hurley, Morgan M. (April 15, 2011). ""My Uncle's Wedding" is endearing children's story of Andy and his growing family - and marriage equality". SDGLN. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  2. ^ ""My Uncle's Wedding" Children's Book". Queer Me Up. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  3. ^ "First Graders in San Francisco Learn About Marriage Equality for Harvey Milk Day". Edge Media Network. May 26, 2011. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  4. ^ a b Johnson, Reuben. "Is It Me or Did Freedom Just Ring? An Honest Conversation with Author/LGBT Activist Eric Rosswood" (July 7, 2015). Fly Media Productions. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  5. ^ Hooper, Jeremy (March 8, 2011). "NOM routinely denies personal animus. Their commenters say otherwise". Good As You. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  6. ^ a b Gressitt, Kit-Bacon (October 27, 2017). "Coming out a second time". Gay San Diego. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  7. ^ Rudolph, Dana (March 11, 2016). "Our families, our stories". Washington Blade. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  8. ^ Lucin, Stephen (February 8, 2016). "New Book, "Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood," Highlights Serodiscordant Gay Couple's Journey". HIV Equal. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  9. ^ "THE ULTIMATE GUIDE FOR GAY DADS". Audio File Magazine. June 2018. Retrieved 23 September 2018.
  10. ^ Robinson, Charlotte (November 21, 2017). "Eric Rosswood Talks "The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads" and More (AUDIO)". Huffington Post. Retrieved 23 September 2018.
  11. ^ "Introducing The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads". November 6, 2017. Retrieved 23 September 2018.
  12. ^ Owen, Will (September 15, 2017). "FALL ARTS PREVIEW 2017: Books". The Washington Blade. Retrieved 23 September 2018.
  13. ^ Lang, Nico (September 14, 2018). "Target Restores 'Queer' and 'Transgender' After Website Censors LGBTQ Words". INTO. Retrieved 25 September 2018.
  14. ^ Rosswood, Eric; Archambeau, Kathleen (November 15, 2018). We Make It Better: The LGBTQ Community and Their Positive Contributions to Society. Mango. ISBN 978-1633538207.
  15. ^ Nahmod, David-Elijah (February 5, 2019). "Accentuate the positive". Bay Area Reporter. Retrieved 7 February 2019.
  16. ^ Lassen, Amos (December 18, 2018). "We Make It Better: The LGBTQ Community and TheirPositive Contributions to Society" by Eric Rosswood and Kathleen Archambeau— A Celebration of Who We Are". Reviews By Amos Lassen. Retrieved 6 January 2019.
  17. ^ Dziemianowicz, Joe (June 29, 2017). "Heterosexual Pride Day trending and offending again on Twitter". NY Daily News. Retrieved 27 May 2018.
  18. ^ Burkholder, Katie (January 14, 2019). "Anti-LGBTQ Past of Potential 2020 Presidential Nominee Tulsi Gabbard Revealed". The Georgia Voice. Retrieved 3 February 2019.
  19. ^ Osborn, Bradley (October 1, 2016). "Author Eric Rosswood to Speak at LGBT Family Conference". Camp Kansas City. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  20. ^ "Author in the Spotlight: Eric Rosswood". Family Equality Council. June 15, 2016. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  21. ^ "Eric Rosswood at the 13th Annual NY Men Having Babies Surrogacy Seminar & Gay Parenting Expo". November 12, 2017. Retrieved 27 May 2018.
  22. ^ Nahmod, David-Elijah (September 14, 2017). "For gay dads, new book answers all the questions". Philadelphia Gay News. Retrieved 23 September 2018.
  23. ^ "Eric and Mat Rosswood". Out. July 16, 2011. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  24. ^ Korri. "Real Wedding Spotlight: Eric & Mat". Disney. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  25. ^ Tribe, Jennifer (May 24, 2017). "7 Ways LGBTQ Families Choose Last Names for Their Children". Q Parent. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  26. ^ Thai, Stephanie (November 23, 2017). "Gay fathers have help in navigating parenthood with 'The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads'". Q Voice News. Retrieved 6 May 2018.
  27. ^ Bowen, Alison (September 26, 2017). "How gay dads manage without paid paternity leave". Chicago Tribune. Retrieved 27 May 2018.